in my twenties and thirties I was a normally looking gaunt and hungry young man and this appealed to a cohort of women, and that was great. At the same time, that was normal.I didn't have to try to look gaunt and hungry. I didn't think I could live through my forties and fifties pretending to be 20 so I didn't, and so I grew in weight, and it suits me to be 6ft tall and 100 kilos. I don't like it, I don't dislike it, but I am not about to somehow think that I am doing anything wrong in this matter. I don't exercise much because I don't need to.Why would you do that if you don't need to? What did you miss out on? Whatever you missed out on in the past, darlin, its not here now. Doesn't any one teach kids reality any more?