Being an affable and friendly being with a long long history in end of life pain control and care, I have noted that sometimes people you meet and sometimes even work with, can be quite nasty and hurtful...only a few... but I have decided that the best thing to do is to let go of any real harm done to me and simply invest in calling upon the legions and minions of arcane vengeful spirits of times past to wreak havoc upon them in all the myriad dark forms with great abiding cruel prejudice. I.E: Just let it go. That's the best way. 'Closure' for me...and yet something opening up... just for them. It's a gift, really.